I think a shitehole is a tad harsh. Lived there all my life has some really nice areas, 20 mins from Glasgow by car. Doesn't have a lot of amenities though, go to Strathaven if you want a bit more and Larkhall if you want even more. The countryside around Stonehouse is lovely. Has an RSC again now too. To me the area around Stonehouse and Strathaven is perfect if you want the country life and still be really handy for Glasgow.
I've known plenty of folk that have lived in the town,a few still do.Most moved away though for the reasons mentioned I'm afraid,the top end of Larky's no better either these days tbh.
The bottom of Larky has low crime,fantastic transport links,and is next to Merryton farm and 2 miles from Chatelherault Park.More amenities by way of shops,pubs,bowling clubs,junior footy but a 2 min walk and 35 min train to Glasgow central as well without the hefty price tag Ferniegair has just along the road.