I didn't know there was this page to help people in the lounge, absolutely fantastic to see this. Even strong people like myself have issues and it is always good to talk. 7 years ago my children were taken away to USA because their mum fecked up with her bf at time. My lawyer wanted to get her charged with abduction, but because my eldest son was 13 he'd have to speak in court against her, no matter what, I've taught my kids to look after their mum, so I had to tell lawyer no, I can't do that, she said you'd just have to fight yourself then. Every year I managed to go visit, I had to give up my own business and everything to do so which meant lost all money. I managed to visit for the 90 days tourist visa that is allowed to USA for a few years but two years ago I had break down, had no money, no nothing, so I've been alone ever since. I can't afford at all to visit them die to my now health issues, nothing worse than having to kiss your kids goodnight on a phone screen while they're crying.... So seeing this group that allows people to open up is amazing. Rangers definitely are one family. One day I will be hopefully back with mine, but until then and always I will struggle alone. WATP