Without a shadow of a doubt, when my wife came out at 30 and told her family of a decade of abuse her mother's second thought was to beg her not to jail the abuser. The first was to call her a liar. The third was 5 years after the court case was "isn't it about time you forget about it and get over it"
Despite a court mandated order for him never to attempt to contact her, during the 2nd year of his 15 year sentence he got his prison priest to attempt to contact her lawyer.
An ex, also brought up in that religion was raped twice at 12 by her brother-in-law and is convinced that her mother helped to arrange his and her sisters emigration to South Africa to cover it up.