Many won't like this, but we have sleepwalked into this situation and it didn't start at the weekend.
For years I've been making complaints about this and other things. I sometimes posted them on here, looking for support and to encourage others to do the same.
Some did but in the main IT DIDN'T HAPPEN.
I still complain, but I don't post them on here. I found it distracting, defending the fact I had made a complaint instead of the content of it.
"Mope" was a favourite, "don't turn into one of them" "leave the whinging to them" " worse than a tarrier" "Man up FFS"
We need to get out of this idiotic "Everybody hates us and we don't care" mindset, because
1. It's moronic, and
2. It's manifestly untrue.
3. Look where it's got us.
Sorry to say it, but we have sat back and done little to stop this happening.
That has to change. We have to cultivate influence and use it.
We also have to stop doing stuff that annoys the very people we need to support us.